Hello to those of you keeping up with us! Sorry it's been a little while since last posting. It's been a hard month and I've tried twice before to write an update, but both times, the program froze and I lost both posts. So I was thinking maybe I needed to not write whatever it was, in case the Lord was trying to tell me something!
I'm going to do my best to summarize the last month...been rather crazy so I'm sure I'll inadvertently leave something out!
One of the major things that has happened has been in regards to the girl's schooling. About three weeks ago, we went to a school that's closer to us than the one they would normally be assigned to go to. We met with the principal and she was very excited about the prospect of having G. go to her school next year. In fact, she wondered if she could maybe even start the following week so that she could get to know some people and how things basically work so that next fall, she'd feel more comfortable! At first, she wasn't crazy about the idea but when she realized she wouldn't be expected to do any of the work, just to sit & listen and get to know people, she had a great attitude about it and started that Monday...two weeks ago now. So basically, she just dove right in to a completely French public school! I was so proud of her! It was actually really funny, because she was an instant celebrity! In fact, on that first day, 55 students got notes sent home to their parents because they were in trouble for not respecting her space! You could always tell where she was because she constantly had a 'swarm' around her! One girl told her on Facebook that she wanted to meet her but she couldn't because she was constantly surrounded by 'her bodyguards'! I think it's died off somewhat by now, but they are all still enamored with her. Most of the teachers have also been very nice to her and are trying to help her adapt.
A. would also normally be at the same school because here, 9th grade is still considered junior high. So the principal also offered for her to come too. She, of course, wasn't as gung ho as G.! But after a week, we finally talked her into finishing out the last two weeks there! So she started last week! She's had a slightly different experience than G. but it's not been too bad. I was just proud of her that she'd try. I know it's much harder for her to do. A funny thing that happened to her was that they went as a class to the library, and the teacher had her read to the class a book in English! She thought they were kidding at first, but they weren't! Afterwards, the class passed around the book and tried to read it themselves in English, laughing at each other's attempts. One sweet girl there even went to the trouble of trying to think of any phrase A. might use in school during the day, and wrote a list for her in French to help her!
So next year, G. will go to the same school as she's in now. Next year for A., we're still working on that but we did meet with the department of education and a very nice guy basically wrote some special code on some paperwork making her automatically admitted into the international school. She wouldn't be in the Anglophone section but in the European section. The Anglophone section is the part that costs so even though she won't take any of the classes in English or take any separate French classes, she will still have roughly 500 out of the 2000+ students who also speak English as their mother tongue. If the Lord provides, she could still do that section but honestly, this seems to be our best option so far. It's been amazing to see certain doors open up that don't 'normally' occur! 'Normally', French administration doesn't break their own rules, especially for a foreigner. 'Normally', French administration aren't known to be excited about an American coming in to their school and really could care less about accommodating them. All of the people we've dealt with so far have been very pleasant and very helpful...even totally willing to bend the rules so that A. & G. will benefit the most. I truly believe God has gone before us in all of these situations. Thank you for your many prayers!!
E.'s job has been very challenging this last month. He has really enjoyed getting to know these two young guys who work under him...he really feels that they are why he's there for right now. However, his boss is less than delightful! Quite frankly, I wouldn't have lasted 3 minutes much less than almost 3 months there! He has to constantly put up with being yelled at, called names, ridiculed and just general stress. The boss is never happy with his performance, no matter how many hours E. puts in to try to accommodate him. This past week was the finale of a huge project and he put in sometimes 6-8 hours extra on some days. Thankfully that is behind him. You all can pray specifically for him this next week...he needs to have a meeting with his boss to tell him that he will no longer put up with the stress that he continuously doles out. Pray that he will be able to do so firmly yet still reflecting Christ.
B.'s checking out his options for next year. He might go to the high school even though he'll technically be finished with his American diploma. It would be at least helpful for him in order to get his French more advanced. We're still praying about what options to pursue for him. His girlfriend is here visiting us for about two months, so he'll get to show her around. She's also going to help with the English camp (the one we came here to help with last year) along with all the other kids...that starts the 4th of July and lasts a week. Pray for good connections for all of them again this year!
The French government has recently changed the laws so that anyone coming here to live under a long-term stay visa, has to do a few mandatory things. One was to take a civics/history class on France, which I did several weeks ago. The other is to take French lessons...which, because they're now mandatory, they pay for! So something that would normally cost us about 4 or 5 thousand euros, has basically been just given to me! (I think maybe another God thing! Just maybe...lol!) The yucky part for me is that it is Mon-Frid, 3 hours each day, in downtown Lyon...ugh. So my new 'part-time job' starting the first of July until the end of August, will be quite time involved and I'm sure, mentally exhausting. You can pray that this old brain will catch on quickly. Thankfully, I tested out of the most basic class, so hopefully I'll really learn alot this summer. Along with taking the class, it also means that I have to take the metro every day to get there...I have discovered about myself that I don't like crowds...and combine crowds and underground...
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A couple of other specific ways y'all can pray...
1) Pray that if at all possible, E. could find another job...one that is less stressful and pays better. It is definitely hard to find the time and/or energy for ministry with the pace of this job and the stress of the environment.
2) Since we've been here, I've struggled with being sick feeling a good bit of the time. It's quite possibly allergies, but I'm not sure. I can't ever seem to get rid of this nagging cough...it's possible that there's something in the air here that I'm not used to. I never knew how exhausting a cough can be...it really zaps my energy. Pray that my body acclimates soon...
3) Pray for our homesickness...we miss all of our friends and sometimes it gets overwhelming. Anyone wanting to come to visit is MORE than welcome!! We'd LOVE it!! :)
Yeah, I'm pretty sure that the last two attempts to post were not nearly as positive sounding...so probably it was the Lord's way of rebuking me...lol. Not that I think I have to be super positive all the time. Just reading a lot of the Psalms that have survived thousands of years assures me that He understands my 'realism' of our situations. But sometimes it does take me a few days (or weeks, in this case), to gain some objectivity and see the bigger picture. It truly is unreal when you see all that God has managed to accomplish in the just under three months that we've been here. (Isn't it crazy that it's already been almost three months!!??) Two things I've discovered so far about myself and about this life...1) Music is way more important to me than I've ever realized...God has used music in the last three months to comfort me and encourage me more than anything else so far. And 2)...being here has made me so much more aware that this earth is not my home. You feel that somewhat in your own country, as a Christian, but nothing like you feel it living somewhere as a foreigner. It is impossible to forget...and it's not something I WANT to forget. I don't ever want to get so comfortable here that I start to forget that. It makes the reality of heaven that much more constant. It's a good thing...hard sometimes, but good...
Love and miss y'all,
Jennifer